Even though you haven’t heard back from this person yet, that doesn’t mean they’re not interested! There’s a huge chance they’re just busy with school, work, or something personal. It’s completely normal for people to take a few days to respond to a text, especially if you don’t know each other that well yet (like if you’ve only been on a date or two). It’s hard, but try not to jump to conclusions yet. If you give it some time and they end up texting you back, you’ll be happy you waited.
“Finally got around to watching that movie you recommended. You were right, it’s incredible. ” “Sorry, had to send you this video of baby otters playing together. I know they’re your favorite 🦦” “Just had the strangest experience at the coffee shop by my place 👀”
In either of these scenarios, double texting is completely justified. Don’t worry about waiting if your plans or schedule depend on a reply.
It’s okay to feel sad and disappointed that someone didn’t text you back. Let yourself feel and process those emotions. If you’re feeling anxious because someone hasn’t texted you back, find other ways to cope with that anxiety. Go for a walk, talk to a friend about how you’re feeling, or do some deep breathing. [1] X Trustworthy Source HelpGuide Nonprofit organization dedicated to providing free, evidence-based mental health and wellness resources. Go to source
Plus, if they do end up texting you back, you won’t see it right away and reply immediately. Waiting a while before responding will show your crush or S. O. that you have your own things going on in life just like they do.
Baking something Cuddling with your pet Listening to upbeat music Drawing with markers or colored pencils Going through your wardrobe and creating new outfits
Spend a day alone doing things you love. Take yourself shopping, go for a walk at the park you love, and end the day cooking yourself your favorite recipe. Lean on friends and family who value you. Organize a game night with friends or catch up with family over lunch. If you’re actively dating, put yourself out there again. Don’t let this one setback get you down. The right person for you is out there somewhere!
